To those who are planning to give up on getting the Solus Greatsword from Lady Grey. It takes a lot of time, I wore the nicest clothes (The whole set of Bright Will User's clothes with the hat) and had at least around 100 of each gift, and gave her one of each every visit (Except the black rose, which is weird considering she initially wanted the black rose, but now doesn't want it), used the 3 types of flirting (Flirt, Arm Pump, Hero Pose) before and after giving the gifts until she invites me to bed. After doing it with her, I save the game and try to do what I did to her again (gave gifts and flirt) until she invites me to bed again. I do this over and over until its morning then I go outside of the manor to do all those stuff again with her, without the bed part. Eventually, she will give you a gift, some received health augmentation or resurrection phial before receiving the Solus Greatsword, I received the Solus first. So don't surrender, trust me, its far cheaper than buying it in Bowerstone North, and it makes you feel good that you have been nice to your wife and that you found one of the game's secrets. hehehe. Takecare to you all and goodluck, heres the picture of Lady Grey giving me the Solus:
http://i118.photobucket.com/albums/o.../7-3-20073.jpg
regards,
Derick - Legendary Spellwarrior called Necromancer