Actually the Oakvale "incident" was actually caused by
and if you buy his House after you finish the Game he explains his choice in the Magical Diary pages he leaves scattered around his house and seeing as when he meets
Also Theresa sounds remorseful when talking about
so i really don't think that point is viable
And for the first point if you read
i don't think that is coincidence
I'm going to mull over the other points before i develop counter-thesises to those but i think this is a great topic to be discussed although you might have wanted to not put the spoiler in the thread Title.....